Juan Pablo has as much emotional intelligence as Carrot Top’s left ballsack, so of course he’s not on the same page as Andi. He’s not even reading the same book. Because he doesn’t read, because he’s dumb, duh. Anyway, their breakup came just before the rose ceremony, and what started out as a straightforward discussion about Andi JUST NOT FEELIN’ IT turned into a war of words. Or word. Specifically the word “default.” — I ranted about “The Bachelor” for about 1500 words.
If someone is being unkind or petty or jealous or distant or weird, you don’t have to take it in. You don’t have to turn it into a big psychodrama about your worth. That behavior so often is not even about you. It’s about the person who’s being unkind or petty or jealous or distant or weird. If this were summed up on a bumper sticker it would say: Don’t own other people’s crap. The world would be a better place if we all did that. — Cheryl Strayed (via kyliecarefree)
I want to love you wildly. I don’t want words, but inarticulate cries, meaningless, from the bottom of my most primitive being, that flow from my belly like honey. A piercing joy, that leaves me empty, conquered, silenced. — Anaïs Nin (via hsaptus)